Esalen® Massage for Couples and Friends

Touch is our forgotten language. In this introductory massage course, participants learn to listen to each other, gain the sensory skill of initiating touch, experience the felt sense of touch and muscle release, and leave with some balanced tenderness. Seasoned instructors will offer exercises, demonstrations, and at-the-table guidance during the supervised practice. The simple principles of Esalen massage – presence, connection, attending rather than fixing, self-care, receptivity, and slow-paced strokes encompassing the body, build a heartfelt experience with a partner or a friend, and perhaps most significantly, ourselves.

The wavelike motion of the ocean inspires the pace of Esalen Massage. Its methods include the following: Connection to the earth, self, and massage partner; an emphasis on presence rather than fixing; a respect for our natural impulse toward health and healing. Students learn to sense into the body and encourage release of muscular tension. The effects of this massage reach deep, often repairing old wounds and awakening our joyful vitality. 

By the final session participants will share a simple yet comforting Esalen® massage. Experienced practitioners and caregivers will find it refreshing to apply the Esalen method and notice its healing effect as their pace slows and the mind becomes focused on compassionate contact rather than only rely on technique.

Touch can evoke an opening to spirit through our innate ability to move into healthful balance or a broader sense of nature surrounding us. The edgy wildness of Esalen’s grounds, canyons, hot springs, and mountain backdrop invite this deeper natural connection. The group may include an optional evening massage ritual in the baths.  This is the birthplace of Esalen Massage.

Recommended reading: Connecting through Touch, by Peggy Horan